Marriage
11 Mar 2011 5 Comments
in Family, Master/slave dynamic
Master and K are getting married! Some day we will have a ceremony for all of us, too. It just seems like the sort of thing you’re supposed to announce. Be happy for them! That is all.
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Mar 12, 2011 @ 16:41:32
Congrats to them!
Mar 16, 2011 @ 14:48:02
I apologize if this is uncalled for but weren’t you and he talking about getting married? Isn’t this *your* dream? I understand you are devoted but let’s just say I don’t understand this extent of devotion. But that’s just me and if you are ok with it all, then I wish all of you the best of luck and happiness.
Mar 21, 2011 @ 08:46:27
It’s not uncalled for, but you will just have to take my word for it when I say this is how it has to be. There are reasons that I’m not going to go into on this blog. Marriage isn’t out of the question for me in the future, but right now it isn’t in the cards. Also, we are all going to have a ceremony for ourselves. Just because I am not entering into a legally binding contract doesn’t mean I can’t have my marriage.
Apr 19, 2011 @ 04:54:07
You said about 6 months back that you had been promised a child. Will this still happen, or will this mean K gets precedence? I cannot imagine what you are feeling, since I don’t know you. Also, I am not poly, so I might be missing some of the finer bits here, but are you ok? This seems like a hard hit, even for someone as devoted as you. I do not mean to come of as judgemental or even questioning your life choices, it’s just I am really struggling to understand this whole thing. Are you really ok with this? Sorry if my comment is inappropriate.
Apr 23, 2011 @ 08:44:20
Hi Moe,
I’m ok. There are some difficult emotions around losing out on something I want, but there is no other way to work things out right now. She has to be married right now, and eventually I will still get my turn.
As for a child, K does not want to have kids. I still get to have a baby.